December, 2009


29
Dec 09

What a Year!

It’s been quite a year for Better Together Events!


We officially became a business earlier this year taking the plunge to full-time wedding planning.  It was quite the gamble for a non-gambler, but it was by far one of the best decisions I ever made.  Next year will be our first complete wedding season in the fabulous Rochester market and it is shaping up to be a busy one with more than 10 events – far exceeding our first year goal!   We are already booking for 2011 and interviewing summer interns to help us through the busy summer months.  I’m so proud of where the business has gone this year.  I couldn’t have done it without the support of my fellow wedding vendors, lovely clients, friends, dear family, and my wonderful husband for putting up with my 24-7 working habits.  See you next year!

Some of the highlights from our year:


23
Dec 09

Cookies and Your Wedding, but mostly Just Plain Cookies!

Last night I made my annual batch of cookies to take home to my family in Albany.  I made Peanut Butter Blossoms for my sisters, Muddy Buddies for my wonderful husband (hmmm… there’s about a cup left), Spicy Chex Party Mix for my brother-in-law, dark-chocolate dipped shortbread cookies for whomever is interested, peanut butter balls for everyone courtesy of my Grandma Cel’s ledgendary recipe (because, let’s face it who doesn’t like butter, chocolate, sugar, and peanut butter combined in one festive bite?), and, last-but-not-least, ginettes for my Mom and Aunt Suzy.  You might be thinking this sounds like a lot of cookies, but you haven’t seen anything until you’ve been to a wedding with a cookie station.  The NYTimes just wrote an article about this common practice at weddings, especially in our region of the country.  Check it out here

What are ginettes you might ask?  In Rochester, they are known as Italian “meatball cookies.” They are also sometimes calleg “Aginoretti,” as in an Italian lemon drop cookie.  My family isn’t even that Italian, but the influence was huge in my upbringing.  I remember going over to my great aunts around the holidays, and there would just be plates and plates of these delightful little cookies.  I also realized as I’ve gotten older how much the feed the ones you love until they explode and/or go into a food coma is ingrained into me, thus the 20 dozen or so cookies I’ve baked this week.  What can I say? I’ve got a lot of love in my heart! Thankfully, ginettes are not very fattening, as cookies go.  They require very little sugar and oil, which leads towards their trademark dry and slightly sweet texture.  These cookies just scream nostagia for me, and I love making them for my mom especially since I think they bring back tons of fabulous memories for her as well.

Anyway, here’s my favorite recipe for Ginettes/Italian Lemon Drop Cookies/Aginoretti/Meatball Cookies
These cookies are traditional Italian cookies, cakey but somewhat dry, and not very sweet.

Makes about 24 cookies
2/3 cup sugar
1/2 cup vegetable shortening
3 large eggs
2 teaspoons anise extract – don’t be afraid of the licorice fumes of the anise if you don’t like licorice – it will mix with the lemon extract in the glaze and make the most delicious fusion of flavors – I promise, from one licorice-hater to another. 
3 cups all-purpose flour
3 teaspoons baking powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
 

Glaze (below)

Preheat oven to 350°F.


Mix dry ingredients together.  Add wet ingredients.  Mix well. The dough should be soft and sticky.

With a small cookie scoop (mine is about 1 Tablespoon), form balls. Drop balls on greased or parchment-lined cookie sheets, spaced 2 inches apart. Make sure you don’t make the balls too big… think walnut sized.

Bake for about 8-11 minutes, or until firm and lightly brown. Remove cookies from cookie sheet and allow to cool completely on wire racks.

Glaze as directed below. Store in an airtight container. If you want to freeze the cookies, let glaze harden completely before freezing and separate layers with parchment paper.  

For Glaze:
3 cups confectioners sugar
2 tsp. lemon extract
1 tbsp. or so of milk
lemon zest of you have it
The idea with the glaze is to combine confectioner’s sugar with just enough milk to form a thin glaze… slightly thinner than elmer’s glue.  If you make a mistake, add sugar or milk until you reach the right consistency.  Sprinkle with jimmies or nonpareils for extra festivus (if it’s Dec. 23rd)! You’ll note that I sprinkled mine with blue sprinkles, a symbol of our interfaith solidarity and melding of two cultures!  
Happy Holidays!

18
Dec 09

Happy Friday = Couture Cupcakes

Ok, so yes, I suppose it is a bit outrageous to spend $9-$12 on 18 cupcake wrappers when you could spend a quarter of that at the grocery store for the regular pastel kind, but that’s why they call them couture!

Bella Cupcake Couture offers these delightful wrappers that wrap around the standard cupcake holder instantly increasing the charm level of your cupcakes.  I think they would be perfect for an intimate shower or bridesmaid luncheon.   They also come in the Holiday-Couture variety:

 Happy Holidays and Happy Friday!  Oh and use the code “holidays” for 20% off until Dec. 25th!



15
Dec 09

Plan Your Wedding Without Losing Your Mind!

Isn’t that the point of hiring a wedding planner?  Well, yes!  But…

Way back when I decided to open my own wedding planning business, a major goal was to keep wedding planning affordable and accessible to today’s bride.  One of the ways I thought to do this was to offer a course with some major pointers on organization, etiquette, design, vendor selection, and budgeting.

So long story short, I pitched my concepts to Rush-Henrietta Continuing Education and my idea was accepted! The course will occur on Thursday, Feb. 25th from 6:30-9:30.  The cost is $45 for a couple (bride and mother/marrying couple/any one marrying person plus a family member). For information on signing up, please visit Rush-Henrietta’s Continuing Education on the web.  The course number is YF 5014. There was a typo with the instructor name, so rest assured I will be there!  I plan on offering this every season as a cost effective way for DIY brides to get a crash course in planning. 

Of course I think the benefits of hiring a wedding planner far outweigh the costs (see my blog post on this subject here), but this is a nice option for brides on a strict budget.  Hope to see you there!


14
Dec 09

New Website Music!

My musical inspirations pretty much change daily.  Today, for example, after a wonderful weekend celebrating the season with best friends, I’m feeling particularly inspired by the brilliance of Vince Guaraldi.

Anyway, I updated my website music to “Today” by Joshua Radin, an amazing acoustic singer that has been called the next Simon and Garfunkel.  He sings the version of the song on my website with the amazing Priscilla Ahn, who you can see if you go to Lilith Fair next summer.  I’m hoping my busy wedding season allows me to go as the lineup is nothing short of spectacular.

The second and last song on my website is a live version of Ray LaMontagne’s “Trouble.” This song is lyrical genius in the folk music world and beyond.  It’s just a wonderful ode to love.


10
Dec 09

Unique Favor Concept: The Wonder of the Whoopie Pie!

I spoke with Marissa this afternoon, the owner and baking genius behind wannahavacookie.com.  After reading about her whoopie pies in December’s issue of Real Simple magazine, my current non-wedding related favorite magazine, I just had to buy some whoopie pies.

I have the best memories of my mom and my Aunt Suzy sitting around the table with us on Sunday afternoons eating whoopie pies.  Part cake, part muffin, with all that delicious buttercream….Seriously, how can you go wrong?  Life’s too short to not eat whoopie pies!

Marissa has come up with all sorts of creative combinations beyond the classic chocolate/vanilla, such as red velvet and mint, chocolate and peanut butter and vanilla and raspberry, just to name a few!  Lucky for your guests and you, she works with couples on whoopie pie favors.  Delish!


10
Dec 09

New Crew for Under $900

I admit I’m a lace lover in bridal gowns, but if it’s not lace, let it by organza with asymmetrical details, which is why I love this dress.  And at $895, it won’t break the bank either.  Love!


7
Dec 09

A Little Sweetness to Brighten Up Your Monday: Amazing Wedding Toast!

I stumbled across this video this morning and just had to share.  I know it’s 9 minutes, but I promise it will induce many Monday morning smiles!

Two thoughts:

Love the man of honor.

Couldn’t agree more that, “In the recipe of life the most important ingredients are friends.”